Hi, Lana, I feel so outraged, after, years of discard and abandoning, my narc parents wants to stake claim on their grandkids, again this sense of entitlement, coming to my house unannounced, out of the blue, pretentious display of affection, they have this ability to play victim, make me look like bad guy, smear me and scapegoat me for everything that is wrong, they pin it on me, so, I have no contact with these toxic individuals, what ry hurts is they give not a damn about me but how they can get their rights to my kids, they have selected the golden grandkids to be the offsprings of their golden child, my brother, so I am not even missed or cherished but they now want the attention from my innocent grandkids whom they have stalked over facebk, Instagram, they have Discarded them for so many years and now my npd parents want to recruit them for their selfish attention, there is this awful power play but bottomline, there is No love at all, what shall I do? Instead of seeing these natural social dynamics and a part of healthy relationship building, the children of toxic parents match any adversity with anger, irrationality, or total seclusion.